Hello, I'm Jia
I was drowning in the emotional side of motherhood, and I still had to figure out the practical side too. What did I actually need to know about breastfeeding? About solids? About sleep training? I had no idea. And nowhere to even start looking.
here for you, Jia
Why I started this
In the gaps between feeds, whenever I could steal ten minutes, I was researching. What I found was information scattered across a hundred different tabs, none of it in one place, none of it built for where I actually was. I was exhausted, overwhelmed, and there was still no single place to go. So I decided to build one myself, real, practical guides, organized by stage and milestone. My mission is simple: help first-time mothers navigate this season without feeling as overwhelmed as I did.
Why you can trust what's here
I'm a type A mum. If I don't know what I don't know, I get anxious, so I go all in on the research. I track every milestone, read up on everything I need to know, and put it all into my notes. That's how these guides came about, actionable guides, roadmaps, and steps you can actually follow. It isn't just my opinion, it's the research I've done, written down, so you don't have to go digging for it yourself. I also have a bachelor's degree in nutrition, which is exactly how the solids guide came together, built on that knowledge and tested on Kai.
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“I just bought your guide and I have to say it's really impressive. I wasn't hopeful initially (have wasted enough money on other guides) but I feel so much more at ease now after reading your guide! Thanks for organising the info so thoughtfully, really invaluable to FTMs like me, who doesn't know what I don't know. Have recommended it to my fellow FTMs!”
— Rachel
“I've been looking forward to this guide as my baby is nearing starting solids soon. Initially thought the price was a stretch for me but I decided to take the plunge, and after a quick read through, it's so worth it just for the amount of time this is going to save me (also my mental load). Everything I've been searching for is literally in here, but actually organised in a way that makes sense.”
— Ying
“I got it and purchased it! My baby turns 6 months on your launch day so it's really so helpful to get me started. I'd previously researched but it's bits of information everywhere and I didn't know how to start. It's so comprehensive, structured and clear, I'm gonna solely rely on this and nothing else for now. Thank you so much!”
— Hui Joo
“I think it's especially helpful for working moms or even moms who just need more tips and tricks on how to prepare certain foods. All the guidance on reading ingredients, recommended brands and even flavours and seasoning we can introduce at the early stages is so helpful, and will really go a long way even for ourselves!”
— Teressa
“Floored by how comprehensive this is (and while being a full time mum at that!!!) thank you so much for sharing.”
— Alexis
“Just wanna drop by and say it's a very good solids guide, coming from a second-time mom. It can be very helpful for a mom who's too exhausted or busy to organise her thoughts around the solids journey. Really appreciate your time doing this. It feels like a guide I can just revisit and sort my cluttered mind when I don't know what to offer the kids.”
— Meg
Where I'm from
Malaysian, based in Singapore
Coffee
Always a coffee person
Personality
Type A, through and through
Fitness
Big into Pilates